when Worlds Collide…

So, for the most part, Dommes try to keep their personal and separate lives fairly far apart. Sometimes though, for the lucky slave, a Mistress has need to.. barter…
Even the most self sufficient Domme needs a little gimme sometimes…
Last  night I saw a very fun little bitch. I had need of some good drywalling and plastering in my newest abode, and he had a hankering for some serious bondage and strap on training. Lady M and I set the scene with a dungeon lit by candle light and some low volume Electro pumping in th background.  I wore my new red latex dress, long-sleeved and short skirt. Lady wore a sexy Cenobyte style dress in PVC, laced tight over her gorgeous breasts and hips.
After this whore had done a full day’s work at my abode, we decided payment would be goods in kind. luckily for me, I won out as my per hour diem is substantially higher than this bitch’s is. A regular pain slut, we warmed this bitch up with some serious ass smacking and some lashing to get that flesh red and warm. With each sharp slap, I made sure another gentle caress followed, to heighten and soothe my little bitch. Harder and harder I slapped this whore, until I knew he was ready to receive my lash….  which I of course gave with full attention.
Earlier in the day, I stood at attention over my little bitch, as he measured and tried to tell me what I needed to order in the way of construction supplies to repair a nasty leak in My House. Being nobody’s fool, and taught by my engineer daddy, I knew this sub was trying to rip me off. Daddy didn’t raise no fool. When I suggested barter, the fool of course leapt at the chance. He of course didn’t realize that I am like The Professional… you may think you are in control, but I will come and get you out of The Dark.
After an hour or so of making this asshole understand the true meaning of pain and subjugation under mine and Lady M’s control, full of slapping and kicks and begging for mercy as we violated and welted his buttocks, he finally yielded.. and I got my leaky pipes fixed for, for a steal…
Mistress X

Idle thoughts of a Dominatrix….

Sometimes it’s nice to get away, but it’s always nice to come back home. The Bahamas are great, sunny, hot and with a plethora of people to watch and be amused by. Why is it that no matter where you go there are always “those people”? You know, the guy who looks like he’s wearing a hair shirt in the Speedo on the blanket next to you, the fat woman in the tiny bikini, her rolls of fat glistening with tanning oil… the hot girl who spends her time making sure everyone is looking at her and therefore making herself UNATTRACTIVE, and the Jersey Shore rejects strutting the beach, talking in bad New York accents and enough hair gel to style a third-world country. Then there’s me, huddled on my lounger in a white men’s button down shirt under the umbrella, frantically reapplying sunscreen and still getting burned. You know, that girl that as they walk by, everyone wonders what the hell she’s doing on a beach when it’s obvious the sun hates her?

Well, even the albinos of the world need some downtime, peeps. So sunburn and freckles be damned, I am going to read my trashy novels and drink too many mixed drinks and attempt to tan, damn it! I had such a great time in Atlantis, all the water slides and rafting, and the general malaise in the air. Still, I found myself doing what I always do, sizing people up, wondering if the guy who won’t put his Black Berry down and talks self importantly secretly wants to be bound up in duct tape and have someone piss on his face. Or if the skinny business man in the droopy swim trunks and a pot belly whiter then my legs is wishing to be dressed in women’s clothes and forced to submit to S/O worship. And, does that older gentleman with that hot younger woman (and I can’t tell- daughter? wife? Mistress?) is waiting for the sun to go down so he can be tied to a bed and thrashed soundly with a cat o’ nine tails…

This is my secret game. I like to sit out in the real world and wonder what kink random strangers are hiding. Does that lawyer have on women’s undies under that power suit? Is the weird guy in my mailroom a closet leather fetishist? What would my boss look like dress up in a pink maid’s outfit and high heels being chased around my dungeon with a paddle while I accuse him/her of stealing from me in a roleplay? I suppose it’s like any one’s idle thoughts really- probably pretty weird to anoyone who knew, but a small pleasure for me alone to enjoy….

Mistress X

Fifty Shades of Negative Stereotypes….

I am so sick of people thinking that just because I am involved in an alternative lifestyle, that I came from an abusive home. That Daddy must have diddled me or that I had a nun that was a little too enthusiastic with a ruler. With everyone and their mother ( and I do mean that) telling me I HAVE to read these books, “they’re soooo kinky!” I broke down and did. Kind of wish I didn’t. Not that it’s not a cute little story line (once you get past the gratuitous and frankly, totally unbelievable sex lines) but that once again, that our culture is stemmed from being abused horribly as a child. I have two loving and intelligent parents. Were they perfect? Hell no, but as an adult I know that they wanted nothing but the best for me and that’s what they provided. 50 Shades has good technical detail, but terrible implementation. The description of tools is fine, but if I hear the words “gasped” or “Oh my!” in common conversation again I may slap ANYONE out of pure annoyance. So what if your heroine is claiming she isn’t a “true sub”, or a virgin or what ever else. Why don’t you make her a barrista at StarBucks,  or how about an astronaut or even better still, let’s make her a champion of abused children. That would be more believable.

Besides the trite and overly visual imagery in the sex scenes in this series, I want to vomit that she presents this twisted view of BDSM. The sex scenes are ho-hum, everyone I know that told me how wet they got when they read it obviously doesn’t have the sex life I do. No, mine is not all chains and candle wax, in fact it’s none of that- it’s very vanilla and normal. Even on a slow night in my t-shirt and grannie panties, my bedroom is hotter then “he nibbles my thighs and twirled his tongue just so”… Really? THIS is what everyone is getting all “het up” about?

Why isn’t everyone getting all “het up” about the fact that this kid who was severely abused and obviously not treated (and his mom’s a doctor-yes it’s pretend I get that but I have a point- bear with me) now turns out to be a Dominant who needs to subjugate women who look like his crack head mom. I cannot even start with how wrong that imagery is. Anyone in the scene who even presents to a real dom with any HINT of emotional or mental distress would be turned away. No we are not licensed therapists but even a new Dominatrix  (if trained properly) would know if someone was not capable of handling it. Plus that he’s turned on to it by an older woman with obvious emotional issues? Again with the child abuse+emotional instability= BDSM tendencies?  Uh, no.

Most people I know are smart, healthy and otherwise “normal” human beings. They don’t watch child porn, they weren’t abused as kids, they don’t smear peanut butter on themselves and howl at the moon while channeling Adolf Hitler. They have college educations, beautiful children and faithful spouses. They don’t organize their poo by date and color. or have psychotic tendencies to hurt others because mommy was a crack whore. I think that if Ms. E.L. had spent a few hours observing how therapeutic these interactions  can be, or ,how damaging her words could be to the community at large, she may not have been so trite.

Just my thoughts. Not blaming her for all the negative views on our community, it’s bringing it mainstream as much as that gags me to say, and therefore a tad more acceptable, but if you’re going to write about it, do it realistically and don’t make us any more dark then we are.

Mistress Reese Dragostea

Philadelphia Dominatrix and Dangerous Vixen