I was recently reminded of why I enjoy foot fetishists so much. He had never seen a Pro Domme before. His email was kind, respectful and honest. Qualities I look for in a potential pet. His main interest was worshiping My feet. I asked if there was anything else he may be interested in exploring. He said he trusted Me and if there was something I enjoy, he was open to trying it. I just love hearing that. Once a pet makes me aware of hard limits and I know their interests, I can think of some creative activities that we would both enjoy.
He arrived dressed for the occasion. He told Me he had actually gotten done work early that day so he was able to shower, shave and get changed. He said he read My website and wanted to present himself at his best. I always prepare Myself for a session and when a slave prepares himself to impress Me and go beyond following directions, it is just a delight from the start. From here we got right to it.
I told him to start by kneeling at My feet, kiss My shoes. I also knew he had a stocking fetish, so of course I had on black lace top thigh high stockings. He asked if he could kiss My legs and I allowed it. I too adore the feeling of stockings on My skin. We spent the next few hours exploring foot fantasies. Did some light bondage,teasing and trampling, even let him lick some chocolate off My feet. Most of our session was spent with him massaging My feet. He was afraid I would get bored with him but quite the contrary. Who would not like a long foot massage? Foot fetishists obviously give fantastic foot massages. We chatted about our similar interests, wine and travel, as he rubbed and kissed My feet. That was definitely a mutually satisfying experience. I told him next time to bring some wine and grapes. I’m already thinking of a foot play scene for our next time together!
There have been a few things recently that have really annoyed me. I will start with slaves who lose sight of what it means to be a personal slave. About a year and a half ago, I had a slave who had been serving me for about 5 months. He was interested in serving me as a personal slave. We discussed what was to be expected and he was fine with it. At the time I thought he would be a fine candidate. Respectful, followed my instructions, didn’t cancel. Over the next few months he was a great little pet. Took me shopping as I used him as a cart and a wallet, to dinner where I would make him eat my pre chewed food and drink the cocktail I just spit in, ran errands for me, did laundry, cleaned my bathroom and chauffeured. The problems began when he put his wants before Mine and it was quite obvious. It seems he lost sight that he was a slave and here to serve My wants and needs. We would make plans for him to do his slavely duties, then I wouldn’t hear from him. A day or so later I would be contacted by him with some excuse like I didn’t feel well, I though you meant today not yesterday. The excuses just got more lame as time went on. When I called him out and refused to entertain his inquiries for a session, he admitted that he was putting his wants ahead of mine. I gave him a second chance out of the kindness of my heart. He promised he would no longer lose sight of what was important which was making Me happy at any cost. The last draw was recently. We made plans for him run errands for me. I contacted him in the morning to let him know the plans for the next day and see when else he was available that week as I was extremely busy and needed laundry done. I didn’t hear back from him until late in the evening to which he informed me he was breaking our plans because he got Phillies tickets. He also couldn’t get together later in the week to run errands for me but mentioned how he would be willing to come over and rub my feet. Really?! Now I understand things happen from time to time and plans may need to be adjusted but to show blatant disrespect for My time is unacceptable. This bitch no longer has the privilege of being seen with Me in public.
I now have a new slave who has expressed an interest at being a personal slave. I explained to him he will need to prove himself to Me over the next few months. He’s a fun little pet. Loves getting trampled and having My tiny feet crush his cock, even a refreshing golden shower. My issue with him is that he makes promises like sending Me a gift card every week which is sweet. My problem is that he is supposed to send them on a specific date yet the last 2 times, I have had to contact him to see why it was not sent. Both times, he forgot. Now if you are trying to make a good impression do you consistently forget to do your duties? Do you make promises you can’t keep also known as your mouth writing checks your ass can’t cash? I think not. To me it just shows unreliability and I really do not have time for that. Especially as a candidate for a personal slave.
I have a pain slut who I love to session with. He’s very open minded and loves when I push his limits. Inflicting pain on him puts a smile on My face and that is what brings him pleasure. He can’t always receive marks which is fine because I can get creative. For instance we had a short notice session not too long ago. He just couldn’t stay away. He’s such a loyal slave I had no problem meeting up with him on such short notice. Plus we always have a great time together. Since I couldn’t give him a thorough beating, I had to come up with other options. One of my favorite ways to inflict pain without leaving marks is electro. We have a great hand held electro shock gadget at the studio. It’s quite intense. I love having a slave tied to the cross facing the wall letting him think I’m going to seduce him. Then out of no where shock him with it. Now this slave is quite the pain slut so when I shock him with it and almost bring him to his knees, I am quite a happy Domina. I also find layering effective for those who can not receive marks but want an intense session. Things like tying up balls, then feeding the rope through the hook in the ceiling and adding weights to the end. Layer that with a tens unit on the cock, nipple clamps and maybe some vibration on those stretched out balls.This makes for some very interesting pain sensations with no marks. Another great one I like with minimal marks is after some piercing play but before releasing my pet from bondage, squeezing a little lemon juice over the freshly pierced cock. I’m laughing just thinking about it. Now even with slaves who can receive marks I like to incorporate activities like this. Keeps it fresh and unexpected. I think is is important to experiment with sensations for the pain sluts. Just when they think I can’t push them further, I add a layer of something unexpected and I hear them begging for mercy.